The Pearl
It was an epic Christmas celebration filled with lots of wrapping paper and too much food! Later in the day, I found myself alone upstairs with my father-in-law. I'm guessing everyone else was in a food coma from the buffet. I hated to see him this way. In fact, in the over 34 years I had known him I had seldom seen him look so downcast. His eyes were misty and his voice shook as he spoke. "Some days are better than others", he said. Of course he had a right to be sad! Losing a child at any age is traumatic. It reminded me of the time I had an 80-year old patient in the ICU. I found her crying alone in her room. I sat on her bed and asked her, "What happened? Are you OK?" "Oh, I am sorry", she muttered as I passed her a tissue. "It's not because I'm in the hospital. I am crying because my baby died." "Oh gosh! That is not an easy thing! Even if it happened long ago. Do you want to talk about it?" "Yes, well i...